How To Create and Use a Gratitude Jar

Foster gratitude and thankfulness with your family this season by creating and using a gratitude jar.


The fall season always gets me thinking about gratefulness, between National Gratitude Day and the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday. It’s like you almost can’t help but have it in the back of your mind. Did you know that many studies have shown a direct link between gratitude and happiness? Robert Emmons Ph. D. completed many studies showing that people who practice gratitude were 25% happier than those who didn’t. Today, I want to talk about how to create and use a gratitude jar for your home and family.

What is a gratitude jar? Well… a gratitude jar is a jar, glass, bowl, or some type of container where you can place your thoughts and feelings of gratitude. It is up to you on how you use this, but I will provide some simple suggestions that work for most any family.

What is the point of a gratitude jar? We are almost trained to focus on negativity. Many people will jump on the first opportunity to complain about something, but will passively accept something positive. A gratitude jar is a conscious and tangible reminder to shift our mindset. In turn, this will help to foster grateful thinking, and a keen ability to appreciate the little things and acknowledge the positives.

Keep reading to learn more about how to create and use a gratitude jar, and thoughtful ideas to get you and your family started. Watch the video at the end that shows the steps in a quick overview.

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Supplies Needed

  • Jar or container: I used an extra pickle jar we had washed out. It doesn’t have to be a jar, it can be a cup, bowl or any type of container that can hold paper pieces. If you don’t hold onto jars for no reason… like I do… then you can usually find some online or at the dollar store.
  • Label: I used a peel and stick chalkboard label from the large pack of them I have laying around. You don’t have to use this, although it is convenient! I used chalk markers to write on the label. You can also just use a paper label, paint on the jar itself, or cut out a piece of paper and tap or glue it on. Be creative and do what works for you and your budget. If purchasing labels, make sure they are the right size for your jar.
  • Writing Utensils: this really depends on how you plant to decorate. I used chalkboard labels with chalk markers. You can use regular markers on paper, paint markers on the jar, or acrylic paints and a paint brush on the jar.
  • Decorations/Crafty Supplies: this can be whatever you or your kids want to use to decorate. We painted our jar with acrylic paints, and tied a ribbon around it. You can use paints, stickers, glue, glitter, whatever you would like! Make it yours, and make it special. Let your kids have fun being creative and crafty. Or, you can leave it simple and plain, which is also very nice.
  • Construction Paper: use construction paper for a colorful flare, or you can use regular paper as well.

How To Create a Gratitude Jar

Creating your gratitude jar should be simple and fun! Don’t over complicate it, it doesn’t need to be perfect, only perfect for you and your family.

Step 1

Prepare your container. Whatever you are using for a gratitude jar, make sure it’s ready to decorate. I used an old pickle jar, so I made sure to let it soak with some water and cleaner to get rid of the pickle smell. First I washed it with soap and water, then I let it sit for a few hours with the water and cleaner mixture.

Step 2

Prepare your craft supplies, and decide how you will place the name on. If you are using the chalkboard labels, make sure there is a clean dry area to place the sticker. Lay the sticker starting from one side and letting it glide onto the container. You can use a credit card to swipe over the label and remove any air bubbles if you want to make it neat.

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Step 3

Decorate your jar to your liking. Add whatever makes you and your kids happy. Make it fun, creative, artistic, or just leave it with a simple label. Do whatever makes you feel happy with it. If you are adding a bow with ribbon, like I did, be sure to either glue it or use double sided tape to secure it in place. Hot glue works best on glass.

Step 4

Make your thought tags. These are small tag sized paper pieces that you can write your grateful thoughts on. I used construction paper to make mine. I cut the construction paper in half long ways, and then cut the tags out of the halves. They can be whatever size you please, but mine are about 1″ tall. I put these inside a small drawer organizer to hold them, but you can put them in a Ziploc bag or whatever you have to keep them together.

Step 5

You should be all set to start using your gratitude jar. Now you will need to determine how you want to use it.

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How To Use A Gratitude Jar

You can use a gratitude jar in any way that works for your family. Some ideas are:

  • Each person adds one tag they are grateful for each day
  • Add tags you are grateful for as you think of them
  • Have a nightly gratitude talk at dinner and add your tags
  • You can add names, or leave the tags nameless
  • Read your gratitude tags once a week
  • Save your gratitude tags and go over them for Thanksgiving Day
  • Choose a tag daily to read and talk about it together

The ideas for how to use this are endless, but the idea is the same. Take the time to add your grateful thoughts to the jar, and review these thoughts as a family to spread the gratitude.

Starter Ideas for Thoughts of Gratitude

Your grateful thoughts, or thought tags, don’t need to be extravagant. The point is to shift your mindset to be grateful for all the things in life, big or small. Sometimes it can be hard to think of grateful thoughts to share, so I figured I would give some starter ideas.

Today I am grateful for…

  • my family
  • being healthy
  • my children
  • my mom/dad
  • having a yummy dinner
  • the nice weather
  • going to the park
  • spending a day with family
  • watching a movie
  • my plants thriving/growing
  • a yard to play in
  • my dogs / pets
  • taking a bubble bath
  • the dishes being done
  • ice cream
  • a warm towel out of the dryer
  • making breakfast together
  • the weekend!!

These ideas might not apply to you, but I hope that they have helped to spark an idea of what you are grateful for today.


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33 Comments

  1. […] How To Create and Use a Gratitude Jar […]

  2. We did this one year too! Though I had big plans and didn’t end up keeping it going for the whole year like I had hoped.

    1. You don’t have to make it go for a whole year, even a short period of time works. It’s just a great mindset shift. 🙂

  3. This is the perfect post with Thanksgiving soon approaching. Yes, we do have many things to be grateful for. I thank God each day I awake.

    Thank you for linking up at GmasPhoto ge•ner•ic Linkup Party!
    Take care and best wishes.

    1. Thank you very much! We have so much to be grateful for. 🙂

  4. I love this idea, it’s something I’ve always wanted to do but never go around to. It would be great to do with the kids.

    1. It is such a great thing to do! You don’t have to commit to a long timeframe, you could always try it for November around Thanksgiving time! Maybe even do a story that shows the background of Thanksgiving.

  5. What a cute idea and love how the jar was decorated! It will be my Feature this week at Funtastic Friday Link Party!

    1. Thank you so much! That’s wonderful!

  6. I absolutely LOVE your idea of creating a gratitude jar! I just might implement this for the upcoming holiday season when the chaos can sometimes take over our ability to find gratitude each and every day. Thanks for sharing! I came across your post in SSPS #280

    1. Thank you so much! I love this for the holiday season as well! It’s funny that we start it off with Thanksgiving Day, to go into a season where we don’t find much thankfulness in many of our days. I have been pushing very hard for our family to SLOW DOWN during the holiday season.

  7. What a great idea, cute jar too! Thanks so much for linking up at the #UnlimitedLinkParty 131. Pinned.

    1. Thanks so much! I love how it turned out.

  8. I love this idea! Such an important concept in a darling display. I love those labels from amazon–I use them on my kitchen containers. Visiting from Tell it To Me Tuesday. (I’d love to have you share this post at my linkup as well: https://lifetalesbooks.blogspot.com/p/calling-fellow-bloggers.html)

    1. Thank you so much! I love these labels too, they are wonderful. I actually am planning an upcoming post for an idea with these labels for my kids entry area. Stay tuned!! Thank you for the invitation.

  9. We always do this daily for the month of November. Sometimes we write it on little apples and tape it to an apple tree on the wall, other times we’ve done a jar. Thanks for writing such detailed post. Reading it made me excited to do ours again this November!

    1. I love that, thank you for stopping by and reading! I really love the idea of the apples on a tree, that is so cute!

  10. Lyndsey, this is such a great idea and so important to teach gratitude.
    TTMT 16 #17&18

    1. Yes it is, thank you for dropping by!

  11. Visiting again to say thanks so much for linking up at #AThemedLinkup 165 for Crafting with Bottles and Jars. Pinned again.

    1. Thanks for visiting and for hosting!

  12. Another way to use it is to have each person pull a slip from the jar and address the issue listed. One friend always knew it was me when the slip reading “hot water” was pulled out. Thirty five years ago I moved to Maine with 2 small kids into a house with no running water. I STILL remember to thank God for hot running water when I shower! We tend to take such basics for granted!

    1. That’s such a sweet idea, I love that! When I was younger we also moved into a house without running water. Taking baths from heated stove top water from a 55 gallon drum really puts gratitude in perspective for you!

  13. I love this idea. Pinning. 🙂 Thank you for sharing this post at the Will Blog for Comments #8 linkup. Hope to see you there again this week.

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  15. What a lovely idea for the family.
    Sorry for the delay with commenting, thanks for linking up with #pocolo

  16. CONGRATS Lyndsey! Your post is FEATURED at #AThemedLinkup 166 for Pumpkin Crafts and Décor from the previous linkup for Crafting with Bottles and Jars.

    1. That’s so wonderful, thank you so much!

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  18. I do like the positive focus that writing down things for which you are grateful brings.

    1. It makes such a difference in shifting your mindset, to be intentional about what you grateful for.

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